EGO

Do you know what thing that most likely to break a relationship?
Your EGO.
Everyone has their own pride, but when you're in a relationship, pride will only breaks your lover's heart, and alas, breaks your relationship.

Why?
Because with your big ego, you'd always want to win, win in every situation, every argument.
With your big ego, you'd never listen to your lover, just because you don't wanna feel like s/he's bossing you around, like you're his/her b*tch (pardon my language).
You don't want people to say that you're whipped.

So most of the time, you ignore your lover's words. Even most of the time what s/he said is for your own good, for your own safety, for your own happiness, and s/he said it because s/he cares..
But you just don't wanna listen.
You just listen to your big stupid ego.

By not listening, most of the times, you do what you're not suppose to, even though your lover has told you what those things would do to you.
And because you don't wanna listen, you're eager to do it, but you don't wanna argue with your lover, so you lie.
Covering your track. But in the end, s/he finds out anyway..

So it breaks your lover's heart.
But you still don't wanna listen, and you're not sorry, because in your ego's point of view, you've done nothing wrong, even though in your heart, you know s/he's right..

So you argue, argue, and argue.
Until s/he feels guilty because you make them think they're controlling you. Or until they're tired arguing with you, and then they let you go..

Well, ego will always win. I guarantee that.
But it'll never end well.
So the question is, will you let your ego controls you, or let your right mind speak?

Because when you're really in love, winning or losing doesn't matter at all..
What matters is how you show your love, keep it that way, and how to make your beloved happy.